It has been explained to you COUNTLESS times already "why", but you, just like your "pathetic" lost brother Tulsa, REFUSE/WON'T listen.
And what's most "pathetic" of all, is that you're suppose to be a GROWN woman at 34 years old! And yet you're so immature, irrational & "pathetic".
At least Tulsa has/had an excuse. He's just a dumb kid. But YOU, an ADULT! I cringe to think if you have any kids, cuz they'll turn out to be just as "pathetic" as you & Tulsa.